We thank God for the life of Papa Adeniji and the indelible influence he had on his family. Tejumade, Olaitan and their families will truly miss the love and care he showered on them and their children. However Papa has gone to be with his maker, the bible reassures in 2Corinthians 5:8, “to be absent from the body, is the be present with the Lord”.

He has run his race and passed the baton on for his legacy to live on in his children, grandchildren and great-grandchild. May Papa’s gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

It seems like yesterday that we met 65 years ago. We were childhood lovers and you were very intentional in your determination to foster the relationship.

It has been over 60 years of togetherness and union. This is why the sudden separation is painful and bewildering for me. We had always been together, going to places together, doing a lot together.

We went through the thick and thin of our lives together with God always seeing us through.

Your love for your children, grandchildren and great grandchild was great and overwhelming. Despite your strictness with them, you always kept in touch with them all the time.

You impacted so many lives. You were always willing to help even beyond your capacity. You were a giver of your time and resources, and that is why you never lacked.

You were committed to your immediate and extended family. You were truly a family man and your family truly appreciates you.

You have always been there for me even when I was ill and I was not able to perform my wifely duties.

I cherish our times together and I am comforted that you are with our Lord Jesus Christ, where we shall meet to part no more.

Sun re o! Love of my life

Your wife,

You had the heart of one who cared completely. Your love for and dedication to my dear husband, Tola, never diminished after his passing, neither to me nor our children.

No matter where in the world I was, you would always call me.

Your guiding principle was always “What would Tola have done in this circumstance?”. You demonstrated the love and respect with which you held for Tola and the noble values of the EJIWUNMI family.

I will miss your good advice in every situation, your kind voice interspersed with humor and experience, and the constancy of the regard you held us all.

Rest well in the arms of our Lord and Saviour.

Pa Tunde was a strong pillar in our family and in the community .

It is often said , that when someone dear to you becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.

We pray that God will grant Mama , Cousin Olaitan and Cousin Teju and their respective families, and all that mourn Mama’s demise the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.

May the Lord keep and watch over the family and comfort them in Jesus name.

Love from all the children of Late Justice Akintola Ejiwunmi and Mrs Ivie Ejiwunmi

You were a great and caring man who lived life to the fullest.

A mentor, an inspiration, a provider – I could not ask for a better dad.

Rest in peace Sir,

The news of Daddy’s demise broke our hearts. We felt something significant had gone out of our lives, for Daddy and Mummy have been so nice to behold and associate with. When we had our kids after ten years of waiting, Daddy named our first child “Tanwa”, and when we had our second child, he named her “Moretayo”.

We surely will miss Daddy.

I was privileged to have served as Financial Secretary of Bickersteth Estate Residents’ Association under his Chairmanship with Barrister Kolajo as Secretary.

We love you Daddy but God loves you better.

Have your eternal peace and rest in the Lord Jesus Christ’s bosom.

I remember my last conversation with Dad, Pa Tunde Adeniji was a Good man , an astute gentleman and a great Dad, a man of virtue and contentment.  I thank God for the time he spent on earth, always watching out for our progress.

Thank God for the opportunity of being your Son for 29 years and may your dear soul rest in perfect peace.

Adieu Great Grandpa

SBD

My heart is breaking so I will remember him (Ps. 43).

My cousin, in the truest sense of the word, has died. He was dear and loving to me.

Yes, somebody I love has died, he won’t ever laugh, shout, joke, cry, kiss, cuddle and tease again. There is an empty space in my heart. It is tough Lord.

You knew somebody you loved died too.

Lord, when doubts fill the minds of Dupe (his wife), Tejumade (his daughter and my God-daughter) and Laitan (his son), and the entire extended family – when their hearts are in turmoil, give them renewed hope (Ps. 94).

Our faith lies in the willingness to trust God when the pieces do not fit, as well as willingness to trust when life moves along smoothly.

It is not so important to know why God permitted suffering as it is to accept the tension and anguish it has created and transform it…for us all, suffering must become creative.

Sleep on Coz. Tunde.

As a kid, I had the distinct impression that my dear Uncle Tunde was a military officer. In hindsight, it could have been a function of his stern face, no-nonsense posture and manner, gait, Persol sunglasses and extreme tidiness. He also didn’t suffer fools gladly.

There was also Uncle Tunde the “Ad man”. The coolest Uncle ever.

You were the General of the Adeniji family – the glue that held us together. You were the main reason why all the cousins grew up as brothers and sisters. I have many fond memories of Christmas day at Ilupeju. You cooked up a storm….which was the same way you would cook for us when we came to spend the weekend at yours. You made me believe that it was cool for Alpha Males to cook.

Your love and devotion towards Aunty Dupe was an inspiration and a lesson. I cannot recall ever seeing you without her and vice versa. You were always a gentleman.

When it came to the Adeniji banter (fabu) and laughter; again you led from the front.

You have certainly left a huge void and big shoes to fill. We will miss you. We thank God for the blessing that you were to our family. We thank God for the full and impactful life that you lived.

I trust that you have joined the Choir of Heaven singing songs of praise.

Rest in perfect peace dear Uncle Tunde.

Love always,

Uncle, this is the most difficult thing I’ve had to do in a long time!

I missed saying goodbye to you just by a day though I saw you just shy of 2 weeks prior. Maybe if I’d known that would be the last time, I’d have hugged you a little longer, kissed you a lot harder or just stayed by your side a lot longer!

Fondest memories of my childhood at your house at Christmas time in ilupeju. I was always the last one at the table and you would tease me and sit with me till I was finally done. We started the day off with Christmas carols & hymns and by evening it was highlife. You knew the lyrics to every song and were a great mover too. This is a tradition that continued throughout your lifetime! So I started a tradition of my own, to host in the new year. You came every year except this year. You were conspicuously absent. You called me & “Baba Ijebu” as you fondly called Tope and you prayed, you threw some jibes, we laughed hard and we were just grateful for your call.

You made us superstars among our peers in Unilag. Everyone wanted to be friends with the Adeniji’s in the hope that they’d get a shot at stardom when we “auditioned them” for your adverts at our house or in the University campus.

I will miss you, the life & light that you bring, your love for singing hymns at the top of your voice, you calling out the funny names you have for me.

May God rest your beautiful soul in his perfect peace till we meet again. I can only imagine the “igbaladun’, joyful banter and hymn singing going on up there! Sing on Uncle. Sleep on. I love you!

Man’s first step to his grave
Begins the day he is born
Some in minutes, hours, gone
Days weeks months, others brave
Many count in years, decades
Few defy the prescribed seventy
Even fewer grind on to eighty
Olatunde strode past five and eighty
To march, an inspiring legacy
To God be the glory

To God Almighty
Tons upon thumping tons of gratitude
For situating Tunde in our family
For his children and ‘children’ gratitude
The bigger family he shepherded
For the lives he touched
Lives he changed
His unfettered love and empathy
Even to his dying minutes
Eternal Gratitude

Waves upon cascading waves
Of memories thick and intricate
Pounding unceasing relentless
On already jammed memory gate
Generous almost to a fault
Accommodating loving gracious
Compassionate almost to a fault
Convivial jovial considerate
Certainly to a fault
Even In death to date!

Gratitude in thumping tons
Memories in cascading waves
Too overwhelming to analyse
I shall savour in pristine flavour
For the remainder
Of my earthly journey
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you
Goodnight Dear Brother
Rest in God’s perfect Peace

What a Journey!

It is with great sadness that we say goodbye to my cousin who passed away recently. He lived a long and fulfilling life, leaving behind a legacy that will not be forgotten.

Pa Olatunde Adeniji was a man of great wisdom and kindness. He had a contagious smile that could brighten up anyone’s day, and a heart full of love for this family and friends. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather and friend to many.

Throughout his life, Pa Olatunde Adeniji inspired others with his unwavering strength, his unwavering faith, and his unwavering commitment to his community. He lived a life of service, always putting the needs of others before his own.

When my father died, he was one of the pallbearers, and when my mother-in-law died, he was the one who bought the cow for the burial ceremony.

He was a role model and mentor to many, and his impact on those he touched will be felt for generations to come.

Although we will miss Tunde dearly, we take comfort in knowing that he lived a life of purpose and meaning. He leaves behind a beautiful legacy, one that will continue to inspire and guide us in the years to come.

Rest in peace dear cousin, thank you for your life, your love, and your wisdom.

You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

Daddy Adeniji was such a jolly person, always had a joke for every situation. He was very kind hearted and appreciative. He will be sorely missed.

May his kind soul rest in perfect peace.

Daddy Daddy…you came, you saw and you definitely conquered. You tried, you hung on but God wanted you more. Keep making the angels smile in Heaven like you did on earth. You will be sorely missed. You always called me “Amuye” and I will miss that.

Some of my fondest and earliest memories were at the old house in Ilu-peju. A little boy running around the party canopies set up outside with all the other kids as Cool and the Gang’s “Celebrate” played over loud speakers in the background.

I seem to remember that old red Volvo he had very vividly. But most of all I will always remember the kindest with which he always treated me. And that my Mother always had nothing but good things to say about him. I was glad that they both grew closer towards the end. So, wherever you are Uncle Tunde, stay blessed and rest well.

My dearest Uncle, I met you at 16 when Tejumade and I were in the sixth form of Federal Government Girls College, Sagamu. Over the holidays I paid regular visits to your home, and took to you and Aunty immediately. Your home was very warm, happy, welcoming and filled with music. You reminded me of my father; always doting on your children. I remember Teju and I used to joke about having “funky dads” who could relate to “terrible” teenagers very easily! You were indeed one of a kind. I also vivdly remember the filming of the advert ‘Peano’ for which you paid us handsomely for our very amateur participation!

You were so easy, so kind, so jovial, so full of life, and so compassionate. I remember just four years ago when you visited my family when my Dad passed. I had no clue you too would follow in a few years; and when Teju told me you were ill I panicked and prayed you’d be fine. I planned to see you on Tuesday, March 7 , 2023 but the clarion call came on Monday, March 6, 2023.

Adieu my dearest Uncle. Our earthly loss is heavens gain! Sleep well.

Saying goodbye to our Uncle Tunde is so much harder than I could have prepared for. Always larger than life, I recall the joy of your booming laughter from when I was a little girl. Your presence always did light up a room.

Christmas Day was always made extra special with parties at your house, in Ilupeju and then in Yaba. Being made to dance/perform with the promise of sweets and when older, some “spraying” for our efforts – always a joy to see how well we entertained you and our other Uncles and Aunties.

It was always plain to see how dearly you held your family – nuclear and extended. I daresay we all learnt the importance of family from you.

Mmh…to hear you say “Toyen” whenever you saw me or we spoke on the phone. A nickname that said to me how I was loved by you. A nickname for us all – “A-Ti-Tus”, “Foraxyn”, “Kanayabista”, “La-lay La-Lay”- just to hear those names was to know your love for us.

I am thankful because the last words I heard you say were “God bless you” and my last words to you were “I love you”.

Goodnight, Uncle. You will never be forgotten. You will be forever loved, forever missed.

Continue to rest in God’s bossom, Uncle. I’m sure your laughter continues to boom even now. We will see you again, by and by.

DELIVERED ON BEHALF OF BICKERSTETH ESTATE BY BARRISTER WALE KOLAJO AT THE SERVICE OF SONGS ORGANISED BY THE ESTATE ON MONDAY THE 10TH DAY OF APRIL, 2023

Today, we are here at this Service of Songs to honour the life and times of a much respected Elder Statesman, a friend, a brother and a father to many. Late Paa Olatunde Adeniji who was translated to eternity on the 6th day of March, 2023 at the ripe age of Eighty Five Years.

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TRIBUTE TO LATE PA OLATUNDE ADENIJI A PEACE MAKER

“Don’t grieve for me, for now I am free; I’m following the path God laid for me.
I won’t be far away, for life goes on. Just listen with your heart and you’ll hear my love all around you.”

The words quoted above are from a well respected and beloved elderly Man who lived a Godly and peaceful life. Such are the words from Our big cousin late Pa Olatunde Adeniji.

You always refer to us the Toki’s as your “offa connection” Knowing you from our own parents (Late Joshua Adeyemi Toki and Late Brig Gen Michael Sunday Toki-Rtd) the Children of your late Aunt Madam Janet Owoade Toki (nee Adeniji) of Ita-ege in Ibadan.

We the grandchildren of your late Aunty have related with you and your siblings for not less than six decades and still counting.

You are a bridge builder, a lover and maker of peace.
You are a lover of God and people

Your love and memory of our late grandmother (Your Aunt) is always reflecting in your discussions with any one of us anytime we are together this we found always intriguing. We cherish you so much and wish this relationship will continue between the Adenijis and the Tokis

On behalf of the Entire late Madam Janet Owoade Toki family from offa, we here by bid you farewell, rest in peace at the bosom of your creator till we meet to part no more.

Pastor. TOKI adebisi olufemi- JP
for the children of Late Joshua Adeyemi TOKI and Late Brig. Gen Michael Sunday TOKI (rtd.)

The ARGONAUTS of Nigeria have lost a very dependable pillar in the call to duty into the realms above of TUNDE! OLATUNDE ADENIJI! We were mates from youth. Tunde rose to become a TRUSTEE, the only surviving one, of the Argonauts. That Tunde would become an Argonauts was inevitable, yet not prompt, considering his upbringing from his mother side of the Ejiwunmi Family of No. 2 Hughes Avenue, Alagomeji, Yaba where Tunde grew up shadowing TOLA EJIWUNMI, later Justice of the Supreme Court, who, with “Senior” i.e. later Professor SIJI OSHUNKOYA, FUNMILAYO DAWODU, BASHOLA ADESOLA. Later Ambassador AKIN NEYE, AKIN WILLIAMS, MUYIWA OGUNTADE his brother MEXI and the elder SOJINRIN together with DAYO DUROWOJU, BEN MADU and SIDNEY ROBERTS later Charter President MAIKANTIN WUSHISHI were the original breakaway choir boys of ALL SAINTS’ CHURCH, Montgomery Road, Yaba, who, in 1949 formed the original ARGONAUTS. Tunde took his time to join.

TUNDE and I were mates at Alagomeji Yaba. His early schooling was at FOWLERS, later St. Jude’s, Ebute Metta while I was at LADI LAK, Akinwumi Street, Yaba to where my family moved from 25 Hughes Avenue, Alagomeji when I was three in 1939. Our interests were identical – “chasing” girls in the neighborhood, kicking football or “tennis” in the local playground, ROWE PARK later MOBOLAJI JOHNSON playground. Our statures were also identical notwithstanding that only a year made me older. With encouragement from DAYO ADEBIYI at Queens Street, Alagomeji, we both took to body building by weights which DAYO in his expertise had procured all the equipment in a GYM in the boy’s quarters of his family home. We were budding CHARLES ATLASES!!

Secondary education took TUNDE home to IBADAN GRAMMAR SCHOOL while I found my way to METHODIST BOYS’ HIGH SCHOOL, Broad Street, Lagos where, via Christ Church Cathedral School, Broad Street, Lagos, I was to meet other Argonauts, AKIN NEYE, AKIN WILLIAMS, FRANK AIG IMOUKHUEDE and DEKUNLE COLE later ADMINISTRATOR OF UNIVERSITY COLLEGE TEACHING HOSPITAL, IBADAN.

Having each bagged our School Certs in 1956, careers were the next search. I went for law after two tempting years in Radio Broadcasting with Nigerian Broadcasting Corporation at Ikoyi, Lagos while TUNDE went for Journalism with the DAILY SERVICE Newspaper which again took him home to Ibadan where from photo journalism he started with at DAILY SERVICE, he was of the pioneer staff at the new Television WNTV, first in Africa.

TUNDE and DUPE were now man and wife; TUNDE went abroad on sponsorships to several TV Stations including the BBC where I scripted a production of TUNDE’s personal production as his Magnum Opus to earn his Certificate at the BBC.

TUNDE’s progress in TV Journalism continued by his sponsorship to lecturer status at UI Institute of African Studies. Meanwhile, TUNDE’s activities in the ARGONAUTS bore fruit when, in conjunction with TOLA, through a shortcut, Major General IKE NWACHUKWU, an in-law by marriage to GWEN EJIWUNMI, was initiated into the ARGONAUTS.

TUNDE retired from his UI post to form a private company producing for TV. Tunde and I continued as mates by featuring in each other’s celebrations as in my entry into the INNER BAR in 1997, TUNDE’s entry into Octogenarianism in 2017, my celebration of 50 years call to the Bar at Grays Inn, London in 2021; TUNDE’s Bash at clocking 85 last year.

TUNDE was a lover of Church Music as borne out by his patronage of the HARVEST SINGERS.

A narrative of TUNDE’s life will not be complete without two heartbeat friends he has now joined with the Saints above; BIODUN TEJE BABY TEJUOSHO AND OLUS P OLUMIDE PEREIRA.

ADIEU TUNDE, my BEST FRIEND, my BEST MAN; By Divine Grace, we are sure to form a Quartet and continue our Songs of Praise in the Eternal Kingdom of our Savior Jesus Christ.

As we remember our dear in-law, Pa Olatunde Adeniji, our hearts overflow with love and gratitude for the precious moments we shared together. We were first introduced to Pa Olatunde and his loving wife when our dear son, Architect Akintunde Lisk-Carew, embarked on his journey of love with their cherished granddaughter, Yimika Daranijo. As their love bloomed and blossomed into marriage, we became part of an extraordinary family union, eventually welcoming their beautiful son, our beloved grandson, Josiah, into the world.

Throughout the years, we witnessed firsthand Pa Olatunde’s unwavering devotion to his faith and his family. A man who carried God in his heart and sought to please Him in all his actions, Pa Olatunde dedicated himself to lifting up his wife, children, and grandchildren, including little Josiah, in prayer. His kindness and generosity extended beyond his family, touching the lives of countless others in his community.

One of our fondest memories of Pa Olatunde was at his younger brother, Dr. Niran Adeniji’s 80th birthday celebration on December 13th, 2022. That day, Pa Olatunde’s contagious smile and spirited laughter filled the air as we gathered with his dear brothers, family, and lifelong friends in joyful reunion. Little did we know that it would be our final moments together, a cherished memory we will hold close to our hearts forever.

Now, as we say our goodbyes, we are reminded that our Heavenly Father takes the best. Rest gently, dear Papa, knowing that your legacy will live on through your children, grandchildren like Josiah, and those whose lives you’ve touched. Your warm presence, love, and wisdom will be deeply missed.

May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace, and may the Lord comfort, strengthen, and uphold your family, especially Teju and Mama. Amen

A good man never dies
In worthy deed and prayer,
And helpful hands, and honest eyes
If smiles or tears be there,
Who lives for you and me
Lives for the world he tries,
To help, he lives eternally
A good man never dies.

Who lives to bravely take
His share of toil and stress,
And, for his weaker fellows’ sake
Makes every burden less,
He may, at last, seem worn
Lie fallen, hands and eyes,
Folded yet, though we mourn and mourn
A good man never dies.

—James Whitcomb Riley

Your example is an inspiration to us all,

Love you Uncle Tunde

Bros TUNS is what I fondly called him, his demise has left a gaping hole in our lives.

I first met him several years ago through my late classmate Olumide Pereira in Ibadan where they both worked in a media house. Later I discovered he was also brother to another schoolmate Goke, and my “Dentist” Niran. In addition to this, his Uncle Chief Seye Ejiwunmi and Aunty Lande were one of my Parents closest Neighbour’s in Bodija Ibadan.

I always regarded him as a big brother, but we got closer when he did a stint with my Advertising agency OBM, where he handled the production of all our TV commercials. A suave, easy going gentleman, but an Ibadan man to the core. He would answer in double measure any quirk thrown at him, followed by his favorite retort “Oo to be”.

I got even closer to him, during a trip, some years back with our wives to Cape town in S.A. I had him all to myself.

I always admired the respect and regard in which he was held within the Ejiwunmi Clan.
Bros TUNS could rationalize issues and give incisive thought to problems. He was never perturbed, and saw the humorous side to problems when they arose.

In later years, his love for “ManU” and my family’s for the “GUNNERS” brought us even closer. Our nocturnal phone calls were about wins and losses of both teams. Tope and I will miss him sorely, his response to my calls was usually “get off the line Ol boy, put Tope on”
Bros TUNS was a fine gentleman, prim and proper.

” SUN RE O, BABA IBADAN”. A good man has gone, Adieu Bros TUNS.

The ADENIYI-WILLIAMS’

With all humility and praise I thank God that He shared you with me.

Your gentle and firm persuasion of what has to be done. The firm steps you walked and asked that we follow knowing that it will not fail us.

The love you shared always following up with “thank you”.
A dupe.

Lollipop.

We got really close to bros Tuns (aka egbon)over the past 10 to 12 years during which we exchanged phone calls and WhatsApp messages. Over the many years we have known him, he has been a kind, loving and honest person who was always ready to guide and counsel whenever he was approached.

Our fondest memory of him was the last visit he and sista Dupe made to our home in Ontario Canada. We still cherish that time we spent visiting sights her in Canada. Bros Tuns had an acute sense of humor, which we will sorely miss. He was a fine gentleman.

Our heartfelt sympathies goes out to sista Dupe and the entire family of which we are proudly part of. May his gentle, loving soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.

I miss you. I miss our calls and banter. I miss you forcing me to speak in Yoruba. Teasing me when I said oko ofurufu when I could just say airplane, and celebrating me when I said the most basic Yoruba phrases.

You were witty, sharp, funny, and generous. Thank you for embodying what it means to care for your family, what it means to give without expecting anything in return. You showed me the love that I should expect in the way that you loved Grandma. And per our ongoing joke, when we were together, we knew how to “enjoy life.”

You helped me move into my university dormitory. We faced some bumps along that 2 hour journey, and I was glad that you were present for such an important milestone.

You told me many times that I was named after your grandmother. I proudly share that fact with others when they ask about my name, or when I correct those who incorrectly call me Adeola. During our last conversation (here on earth), I asked you if there was a specific reason as to why you gave me that name. You said it was because your grandmother took care of you, and that you loved her very much.

Just like your grandmother loved you, I know that you loved me very much. Not only did you tell me, but you showed me.

When you and Grandma would visit, I would count down the days to your arrival and sob when you went back to Nigeria. I cried when I left your home in January but I know we will meet again.

The sadness comes and goes, but I cherish the sweet memories. I love you Grandpa.

Always in my heart,

From the onset, you & Mummy treated me lovingly, like a daughter. I am extremely grateful to God for our trip earlier this year when we were able to spend quality time with you.

Your words of wisdom, encouragement and prayers during our long talks late in the night are dear to my heart and has been a source of strength.

We appreciate your many visits, being present to accompany Adeyoola on her first day at college, celebrating Kitan’s sweet 16 and several other milestones.

I will forever cherish your love for your family, discipline, constant support, high standards, intelligence, humour, good taste for exquisite foods and certainly your sharp fashion style.

You spoke your mind unapologetically and I could easily have heartfelt conversations with you, be it tough or light hearted.

Thank God we hold unto the HOPE we have that we will meet again at the feet of Jesus.

My prayer is that the legacy you left behind will live on…….

I will miss your fondly calling me “Lady T”

Rest in the Lord Daddy💙

My Dear Uncle, was in a state of shock when I heard you had passed on to glory.

We give thanks for your life. We thank you that you stood in for me and my siblings as our father after his demise.

You regularly called our mum to check on her. we appreciate your love to us. My father and you were like loving brothers. I am comforted by the thought that you are now together, continuing from where you left off.

The Ejiwunmi family are grateful to you for offering us wise counsel. You acted as our rock and it is very much appreciated.

I will miss you calling us to ask how we are and to enquire about the progress of our children. I will miss your laughter and jokes during the calls.

ODARO SIR

This is a beautiful celebration of life well spent. I am to express my condolence to the family and loved ones for the departed soul of our great-grandfather, Grandfather, father and uncle now at rest with the Lord.

May God almighty continue to strengthen the family with fortitude to bear the irreplaceable demise of our Icon.

May his gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace, Amen.

My dear uncle Tunde! You were such a great man to be around. You always checked on me and my siblings (Sj and Jumoke) for as long as I remember. You were one of my mom’s most trusted confidant and always provided great advice to her.

I am so happy that I got to see you last year after such a long time. You were your usual boisterous and energetic self.

May your soul rest in peace.

Grandpa, I can’t think back to a time when I was coming to Onike without being ready for a good laugh. Thank you for putting smiles on the faces of your family and filling every room you were in with Joy.

You were such an inspiration to us all. It saddens me that I never got to share how grateful I was for your support and encouragement throughout my journey playing football. While we had different opinions on the best team in the EPL, I will never forget those conversations we had about a sport we both love very much 🙂

Christmas Day will never be the same. A season highlighted by good times and celebrations but without my grandad will now be a lot harder to get through. I’m glad I got to see you one last time in December and I thank you for the amazing memories you left us with.

May your soul continue to rest in perfect peace,
“Papa”

Uncle, thank you so much for your love, care and concern. You intentionally asked my Father, your uncle, to hand me over to you thus you became my second Father and I am forever grateful. You were a family man to the core, full of life, your doors and even windows are always open.

I miss you greatly uncle, you fed me snacks while I drove you and aunty in Chicago, I always looked forward to your visits, we laughed when we talked about old memories, my pain was your pain and my joy was your joy as well.

I called and told aunty I was coming to see both of you but alas, you couldn’t wait. My joy is that you knew the Lord therefore you are in the best place.

Rest on sir till resurrection morning.

My dear brother Tunde, my ‘Go to’ cousin, Olori- Ebi.

Nothing pleased you more than to be surrounded by family. You held us together in the tradition of those who came before us. You opened up your home for us at all times, day or night.

You never stopped to remind me of my role as a woman in the family. I treasure your wise counsel.
You will be sadly missed even though we know that you have gone to rest.

Rest in Peace, beloved.

To my ANGEL grandpa, I thought about this message long and hard and to be honest, words cannot describe how much of an influence you were throughout my whole life. You were a kind, gentle, generous, incredibly funny and family orientated grandpa. You taught me how to be patient, calm, and how be grateful to God through all things and also how a woman should be treated with the way you treated my grandma.

Your character really commanded a room even if you never really spoke much. Your subtle laugh and jokes alone would light up any room.

You were very intelligent and when I found out my first job at Ogilvy and Mather was the same place you worked at for over 30 years, I really felt a sense of achievement of this full circle moment.

Growing up, you were like my second father. Always there to comfort, encourage and advise me through every stage of my life. Your presence and voice would be greatly missed grandpa. You have left a very big legacy for us to fill and I promise to do my best to live up to it.

Seeing the relationship you had with my mum and how you were a very hands on dad really melted my heart. You were both very close, spoke every day and she would sing your praises daily. I am truly grateful to you for all the love and comfort you gave her which she passed onto myself and my brothers.

THANK YOU for being YOU, the time we spend together and for all the numerous lessons you taught me. Heaven has TRULY gained an Angel!

Heavenly Father, please take care of my grandpa for me and keep him close to you. I pray for peace, comfort and strength for the entire Adeniji family. As they go through this time of grieving, let the Holy Spirit remain by their sides In Jesus name. Amen.

Rest in perfect peace my ANGEL grandpa

With love,
Yimika ( Ahhh yimmy baby)

My loving and caring grandpa who nicknamed me “Dejboy”.. we were both ManU die hard fans! We always had a special bond because of this.

Grandpa, you were a blessing in my life and saw me through good and bad times.

I remember when my parents decided to punish me for not passing maths in Js3 “by keeping me in Nigeria while everyone else went for summer holidays in the US, you took me in and tried to make the period easier on me… we had great conversations and plenty of groundnut to eat!😁 and we bonded more during that period.”

I thank God I spent last Christmas with you, we had breakfast with lots of laughter as usual.

May your soul RIP grandad,
“Dejboy”

Pa Olatunde Adeniji was my mother, “Sister agba’s” twin – look alike, shared the same birthday and personality. Both of them were strong, bold, generous, humorous, loving and caring.

As “Olori ebi”, he continually executed family responsibilities towards both Ejiwunmi and Adeniji families. Despite his old age and health, he was a selfless strong pillar who ministered tirelessly to his two late sisters -sister agba and sister kekere – during their failing agility and last days until God called them home.

Pa Tunde, you have graciously completed your fore ordained good work and it is well appreciated. You will be sorely missed as your good deeds live long after you. Rest in perfect peace.

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My phone would ring almost every morning without fail…JUMADE!! (a short cut for TEJUMADE) or ABIKE!!! And from my response you would instantly know the mood I was in and whatever the mood was that day, our conversation was guaranteed to make me feel better with lots of jokes flowing…..sometimes it ended with “the heavens are not going to fall!! Pray about it, go and get yourself steak, a good glass of red wine Dear and enjoy your day!” We would both end up laughing from the bottom of our hearts before hanging up. What a heartbreak! My phone has painfully stopped ringing! Uhmnnnnnnn…

My growing up is filled with great memories of you instilling values you were raised with, contentment, fairness, respect, hard work and love for God, humanity and family. God bless Pa David Oladokun and Mrs. Olufunmilayo Adeniji (nee Ejiwunmi) of blessed memory for raising the best 5 individuals I know! The love, respect and unbreakable bond between all five of you was uncommon and enviable. There was never a time while I grew up without a member of our extended family living with us and going to the same school as we did, with house chores divided evenly amongst us all including house helps. You always said “Bi won se bi yin ni won se bi awon naa” (extremely annoying to me at that time but a value I appreciate today and have instilled in my children).

Thank you for being a “hands-on” dad, never missing a birthday or a visiting day while I was in boarding school – you bought my clothes, underwear, shoes etc. You had impeccable taste and believed so much in travelling!! Olaitan and I never went without an interesting destination for summer vacation, right from when we were very young (something you enjoyed doing with your wife every year for over two decades! Travelling all over the world, going on cruises etc). “Travelling exposes you to the world” you would say, your love and encouragement for sports is why I still wake up at 5.30am daily to the gym! And we both loved tennis! What is there not to love about you Dad?

You were a one-in-a-million dad and I am ever SO grateful to God He made you my first boyfriend, cheerleader, gist partner, bouncing board, stress reliever, shrink, ride or die, go-to dad. Your sense of humour was second to none…indeed this is in the Adeniji DNA! LOLLL, everybody that knows our family knows that we live that scripture in Proverbs 17:22 anywhere an Adeniji is you can be sure there will be plenty of laughter there!…we never take ourselves or life too seriously! You and all your siblings also loved to sing Hymns (Ephesians 5:19). You lived the scriptures Dad and I KNOW God has welcomed you home.

You were a family man to the core (immediate, extended and acquired over the years). Thank you for being you Sir. I thank God you were in Him, had a relationship with Him, impacted lives, said it like it was, loved without discrimination, a peacemaker, jolly good fellow, a compassionate man, a serial giver, a great husband to my mother, an awesome father to my brother and I and a fantastic grandpa to all your grandchildren. A shame you did not meet your great grandson in person but we thank God for video calls.

We all appreciate you and promise your legacy and good name will not be tarnished, God help us in Jesus’ name.

I have no doubt you are in your “Adeniji Mansion” in heaven re-united with Sister Agba and Sister Kekere and I can bet that place will be full of laughter and singing of hymns!!!… we shall all meet there one day to part no more in Jesus’ name.

You lived a good life, served God from your youth, showed love to humanity and have gone home to rest…your good memories will make this pain fade away with time and the tears from flowing.

Olatunde Adeniji, sun re oo. Goodnight My Dad, My Hero.

You will be fondly remembered FOREVER.

It is with gratitude to God that I write this tribute to you. I want to sincerely thank God for your life and the great impact you made in the ADENIJI – OGUNRINDE enlarged family circle. You were always there for us to advise, to admonish, to encourage, to help and to direct. Attending the annual family harvest celebrations in the family house at Mokola was always a great family reunion we all looked forward to and was always highly cherished and enjoyed.

Uncle you have passed on but your gentle amiable mien and easy jokes can never be forgotten. I want to thank God that less than 24 hrs before you passed on, we prayed together on your sick bed and you still asked after my family. I never knew that would be the last time we would be talking.
My dearest uncle, you had fought a good fight, you had finished your course, you had kept the faith (2 Tim. 4:7). Henceforth when the Chief Shepherd shall come, you will receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away (1 Peter 5:4)

O death, where is thy sting? O grave where is thy victory? Sleep on dear Uncle Tunde, till we meet to part no more. We all love you but Christ loves you more.
Adieu! Adieu!! Adieu!!!

With over four decades of a relationship that started at No.1 Olusanya Street, Ilupeju in 1980, there is no doubting the immense positive impact you made in our lives.

Your excellent sense of humour is spot on. Never at any time was any of these humour a square peg in a round hole.

Your dress mode was never loud but always a beauty to behold.
Your brief but heartfelt prayers each time you saw us were very encouraging.
You always said it as you saw it, very lovingly though.
A man who knew when to work and when to relax!

These attributes and many others not written here, you imparted us and a great number of others.
We miss you.
Rest in peace.

You have lived a good life papa. May your gentle soul Rest In Peace.

Adieu

I first met “Papa ‘Ol Boy”(‘ol boy’, being his son,Laitan,my friend’s nickname.
He was a handsome gentleman, courteous, alway well dressed,who lived life to the full.
He loved music,and the Arts, and it was from him I picked up my enduring love for World Music, especially, Ghanian Highlife, which he loved with a passion.

He was a passionate man who loved his wife with an unabating love till he passed. I always remember them as a glamorous couple who enjoyed each others company and love.

As the song goes, “He lived, he loved, he laughed….”

This tribute of mine is a celebration of a life lived to the fullest, love enjoyed and savoured till the end……it is a celebration of the life lived by “Papa ‘olboy”.

Continue to rest in the bosom of your Lord….Good night.

I write on behalf of the siblings of Mrs Dupe Adeniji and proud to say Mr Tunde Adeniji was a wonderful, loving and kind-hearted man. He related with all his in-laws like his own family. Their home in Ibadan was opened to all and sundry. The tradition continued when they relocated to Lagos particularly with the usual bumbling Christmas day party always hosted by them. No dull moment with him, always filled with jokes that wìll last a lifetime.

He was so much joy and fun to be with. He will sorely be missed. May God grant the entire family the fortitude to bear the loss in Jesus name

Your laughter and smile will always be remembered to brighten my days. Your nicknames, advice, and jokes will always be held tenderly in my heart.

My Grandpa’s light will never dim because he made sure to be unforgettable. I am so grateful for such a warm, wise, and wonderful Grandpa. I always felt safe with him. I am now blessed with his memory. His support and encouragement will encourage me to achieve every goal, reach every milestone, and face every challenge.

Thank you, Lord, for blessing my Grandpa with such noble qualities and sustaining his legacy for years to come. As a humble father, husband, brother, grandfather, great-grandfather, and friend, I cannot help but reminisce and adore the life my Grandpa lived and left.

God bless the Adeniji family and comfort us in mourning. Let us gain strength in this time with great faith and hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.

1 Thessalonians 4:17-18
After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words.

Uncle we are saddened that you are gone and know that we will miss you greatly,we know you’re in a better place and pray that God will comfort everyone you have left behind.

E sun re o..

My Darling Uncle,
A man of very few words. Which was a character I truly admired.

You didn’t baby, pamper or play with me at all…but showed me love, through your jokes, stories, lessons and teasing…..

You often called me “Kanhaiya Bista”, can’t say for sure You knew meaning, but I know I didn’t.

So to Honour My Dear Uncle, I Googled it. 40years later
(I was 8years old when it started).

Kanaya – the most beloved Son
Bista – Landlord or Baron.

Uncle Tunde,

I Love You and I Will Miss You, Dearly.

Femi Adeniji Aka “KANAYA BISTA”

Adieu my kindhearted, loving, humorous and ingenious Uncle, Pa Olatunde Adeniji. I saw you 3 years ago and recently on a video clip recorded during your youngest brother’s birthday ( Uncle Niran Adeniji). You did not show any signs that you would not be with us for a much more longer time. You were ageless, full of life, attending family functions fulfilling your role both in family circle and your service to God at your place of worship, All Saints Church Montgomery, Yaba.

I can perceive in spirit your Tenor vocal chanting through Psalms and hymns as host of Angels welcome you home. How can I forget your humorous archaism when you rebuke and correct us with love. We hear words like “Kanayabista” Bl**dy Kongo.

The scriptures says “ if we live, we live for the Lord, and if we die, we die for the Lord. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord. Roman14:8

Pa Olatunde Adeniji, Olori ebi and Daodu of the Adeniji family of Ita ege Ibadan. You will be greatly missed.

May your gently soul rest in perfect peace.
Damisco (Nephew)

Dearest Uncle. I would never forget how fond you were of my dad and how warmly you cared for us after his death. It was a privilege having you as an uncle.We will miss your kind words, funny jokes and hearty smile. We will be consoled imagining you and dad sharing a bottle of wine and smiling down at us.

Rest well Sir🙏🏾

Grandpa Adeniji , a good man of inestimable value, worthy of emulations, full of life experience.

Papa, we are saying a big thank you for touching our lives. we celebrate your departure to our creator.

May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.

“Do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9